My Interior Resolutions for 2019 (Part 2)

In my last post I started to introduce some of the interior-related things I am planning to do for 2019. I deliberately decided to do this in two instalments. And mainly because I knew that as soon as the Christmas festivities were over and the ‘all back to it’ began, it would be too easy to lose sight of those good intentions that you make when you’re overtaken by festive cheer (and most likely inebriated).

One week in, and already, things feel like they’re slipping. They’re not, of course, it’s just when you’re back at work, your non-work things will inevitably slow down or take less of a priority. So, this second instalment is both a boost for me, a prompt to help me remember to keep sight of what I’m wanting to achieve, and hopefully steady encouragement for any of you who are already feeling the strain on the things you’d set for yourself in 2019.

So, here’s numbers six to 10:

6. Organise my mind, my hobbies, my house

My mind works in mysterious ways. It’s all over the place, often over-excitable at the thought of a ‘new’ project and also flits about as it gets bored (which can happen quite quickly). This means that we have lots of unfinished jobs, bits of unpainted furniture lying around awaiting its long-awaited revamp and hopefully sold on to its new home (see number eight!). This can soon get me down. Looking around at piles of stuff everywhere, unfinished rooms and so on is not the most inspiring of environments. Also, thinking of everything that needs doing can be totally overwhelming.

This calls for pragmatism. I was chatting to a friend about this, and like her I am going to list, room by room, what I need to do. I am going to write a list of things I think we need to buy, as well as things I would like to buy (I’m considering a new sofa and armchair in the living room, but that’s not a priority). I can then start to feel like I’m taking back some control as well as working out what the priorities are and how to manage budgets.

7. Think outside the box

This one is covering a few different things. But essentially, it’s really thinking both about what I buy for the house and why and what I already have and whether it could be used better.

This is the kind of scenario I’m talking about. You go shopping to a huge store, perhaps for one thing in particular, or perhaps just for a browse (there’s a few shops in particular I have in mind) and you find yourself just loading your basket with things mindlessly? Then you get home and have to spend three weeks trying to figure out what it is or does, before conceding defeat and giving it to a charity shop to let some other poor person try to work it out? Well, I have. But I need to stop so I can divert my resources towards things I want and things that will make everything a bit more organised and tidy over at No. 31.

Finally, on this point, practical and beautiful do not have to be working against each other. I am going to try to make 2019 the ‘year of the aesthetic’. I see so much inspiration on Pinterest and Instagram from things like your soap and shampoo dispensers through to utility room cupboards. Why not have practical and stylish I say, even on a budget? Which means I’m going to take a long hard look at the niggly little things, the things I need to have on display or to hand, but can be smartened up a little bit (or dare I say, made a bit more IG worthy?)

8. Sell stuff!

My house is slowly starting to look like an antique emporium. I know that sounds like no bad thing, but these are things I’ve slowly been buying to paint and sell off. I don’t need this many coffee tables. In a bedroom. Nobody does. I think there’s a mix of procrastination and nerves here. What if it doesn’t sell? What if it does sell, it gets to its new home and they don’t like? Those types of things are flitting around.

However, the bigger question is ‘how will I ever know if I don’t try?’ Another leap of faith to be taken.

9. Side hustle more

Writing this blog and Instagramming has been quite significant in helping me to find and cultivate hobbies that allow me to possess a more creative outlet. I’m hit and miss at the moment, as I’m trying to work out exactly what I want from my different hobbies, but so far, so good. And with so many things I want to do, I’m just going to have a bash at all of them. I’ll slowly figure out the things that I enjoy, the things I can’t do for whatever reasons and just through natural selection, the ones I don’t want to pursue will just drop off.

I’d also say to anyone thinking of wanting to pursue a creative hobby, or have thought about doing something similar for a while, just have a go. Honestly, as soon as you start painting, typing, whatever it is you’re doing, I think you’ll be amazed at how quickly you get some rhythm.

10. Collaborate

Last but not least, I am really keen to explore collaborations. I have already starting to build some great partnerships with people on Instagram. I want to continue to do this, building networks and letting each of us gain skills, knowledge and experience from each other. There’s loads of us, we’re sometimes doing similar things, but there’s room for all of us. There’s a few exciting things in the pipeline, so hopefully I will be able to reveal some of these things over the coming months. So let’s keep working together and keep making the community the best it can be.

There you have it. The full set of interiors plans for 2019. I know that there can be some resistance to resolutions for many reasons. A key one I guess, is that you are setting yourself up to fail, which can then be even worse for your motivation. But I don’t see it like that. For me, it’s just a wish list of goals that I can remind myself of throughout the year and give me a bit of a framework to how I focus some of my attention when I have spare time, or wish to spend time doing my hobbies. Nothing bad will happen if these 10 resolutions aren’t kept. But, if just one or two are, then I will have made some good progress on things that are important to me.

If you’re setting your own goals, then good luck!

My Interior Resolutions for 2019 (Part 1)

So that’s it, we’re nearly done for 2018. I have had a great interiors year. I joined Instagram in May, started posting with trepidation (and mostly confusion), have met some great people along the way (and keeping on doing so), unlocked my confidence (both in term of my personal confidence to do/say things and interiors confidence) and have been immersed into a whole world of inspiration.

This blog has been a huge move for me. This is the kind of thing I would normally think about doing, but never dare do in case someone says something negative. So far, the response has been overwhelmingly positive. I anticipate this may not always be the case, but I have mechanisms in my head to deal with any negativity. Constructive criticism is different though. I love that and it helps me develop.

I am also ‘marketing’ my blog as an ever-changing beast. Something that will grow and evolve with me as my interiors side-hustle develops. It will (hopefully) become a bit more regular (e.g. same time each week, rather than just any old time) and continue to be my creative outlet and a source of some inspiration to you all; whether that be your own interiors or your own online social media presence.

So, to finish off the year, I am doing a two-parter focusing on my 10 Interiors New Year Resolutions for 2019. In part, the hope is by making my resolutions ‘public’ I stand slightly more chance of actually sticking to a few of them beyond February. We’ll see.

1.Blog, blog, blog

I’ve got nothing interesting to say. Everyone’s blogging, and they’re all so much better than me. I’ve got no ‘interiors credibility’. I’ll do it when I get to two-thousand followers. No three-thousand. I’ll do it in 2019. Perhaps, 2020. Okay, you get the picture. These were all the things going around in my head. So, I decided to take control of my self-doubt and went, you know what, this is going to be one of my 2019 New Year Resolutions BUT I’m going to start it right now, otherwise I will never get on with it.

So, all of those thoughts, whilst they do crop up now and again, just get over-ridden by me saying ‘are you enjoying blogging?’ and ‘do you want to carry on blogging?’. The answer to both, is yes. If only one or two of you read it and take something from it, then that’s great. And I get to fulfil a nice creative hobby and interest of mine; writing. So, self-doubt aside, I plan to plough on.

I would also say to anyone else thinking about starting a blog of their own, go for it. It’s a really inexpensive thing to do, and with such a supportive community, you will have the help out there to get cracking. It’s also a nice way to just organise your thoughts and share your ideas. Remember, only people who are interested will read it, so it’s a fairly safe space.

So, for 2019 I will be making the pledge to blog weekly. I will use it to talk about my own home, ideas and also, most importantly, as a platform to share some of the accounts I love and keep going back to for various ideas and inspiration.

2. Keep it in perspective

This has to have been one of my biggest learning curves. Scrolling through Instagram can be a wonderful experience. It can also plunge you into a pit of despair. Whether that be about the size of your rooms, the style of your home, the type of furniture, your photographs. Whatever it is, you can question your own home and whether it’s good enough for ‘the Gram’.

I admit to feeling all these things. A lot. Especially in the earlier days. Now though, if I ever dare to think this, I give myself a good telling off. At the end of the day, I have a lovely, warm, safe home to return to every evening. I know exactly where I am bedding down each night. This is undoubtedly more important than anything else. So yes, my kitchen and bathroom could do with a revamp. But I have hot water and access to food. I’ve got nothing to worry about.

Now this might sound hard-line. But essentially, that’s the long and short of it in my mind. I know I have interior ambitions for the ever-evolving No. 31. I don’t have the resource to do it all straight away and patience isn’t my greatest virtue. But so be it. I’ll get there eventually. But what I have is far more than some people and for that reason. And will try my best to remember this if I ever start the unhealthy comparisons.  It’s also a good idea to not always look at your home through the lens of your camera, and actually see what you really have around you!

3. Do it for me

I have found myself scouring the internet trying to find all sorts of weird and wonderful things. You know, the sort of things that suddenly appear on loads of people’s feeds. I won’t name them specifically. That goes against the ethos of what I’m about (and this point more specifically) which is that everyone should just do as they want and what they enjoy. But there are some trends I just can’t get on board with. And I now realise, that’s fine.

This doesn’t mean you can’t be influenced by inspiration though. Absolutely not. My last blog documented my move over to darker interiors. It was Instagram, and some of the wonderful accounts that I follow, that gave me both the confidence and inspiration to have a go at something a bit different. And, I’ve genuinely loved the transformation, which means I am now planning darker interiors for other rooms. But this is because that’s what I want to do not what I think I should be doing to get the likes.

So for 2019, anything that comes into this house is because I want or need it, rather than because ‘it might make a good photograph’.

4. Be more independent

Now I have to admit, I’m a bit of a Homesense fiend. Since one opened close by, I find myself in there at least once a week. I tend to go for a wander around as my Monday night treat (don’t judge). I actually refer to it, jokingly, as my ‘happy place’! But, through Instagram, I have found absolutely loads of wonderful independent businesses and through various conversations, I’ve realised how hard these people work to make their business run. And how grateful they are when you support them. And as a consumer, I would much rather my money going into the pockets of these people who I actually know, engage with and, in a number of cases, have actually become friends with. So before I make any more purchases, I’ll be thinking about whether any of the indie businesses would be able to supply me with something similar and check them out first!

4. Ditch the trades

Getting reliable tradespeople, as I’m sure we all know, can be quite the task. It doesn’t seem to matter what I want doing, I can’t get people to commit. It’s perplexing, as I am prepared to pay them! So, I’m taking control. I’m ditching them. Okay, not entirely. I promise to go nowhere near the electrics. And plumbing will be a last resort. No, I’m referring to the kinds of jobs I could probably try and have a go at, but currently just see as something only a qualified expert would be able to do. Their unreliability means jobs don’t get done at all and then no room is finished, which is so frustrating.

So I’m going to start simple. Try to get some skirting boards done in the home office for example. And, more importantly for me, I am going to remember that I need to be patient and if it goes wrong the first time, look for solutions, don’t walk away from it mumbling ‘I can’t do DIY’. I am not the best, but that’s because I’ve not given it the time it needs to practice. So for 2019 I am changing this. I am going to have a go and who knows, I might get some of the niggly jobs done and dusted once and for all.

So these are my first five Interior Resolutions. Tune in again later in the week for the next five pledges for 2019. In the meantime, I would like to thank you for your support so far and here’s to a wonderful 2019.